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Just Accept it?

The 5 Misconceptions to "Just Accept it"

December 13, 20222 min read

The 5 Misconceptions to "Just Accept it"

“Just let it go”

“You need to accept it and move on”

"Just be positive and accept things as they are"

You’ve probably been told at least one if not all of these statements and you might have said it to someone as well.

Sometimes it’s annoying.

Sometimes it’s “I know, but how?”

Although positivity and acceptance are beneficial, these advices might ignore the complexity of emotions and the need for processing negative feelings before arriving at acceptance.

So let’s talk about.

Acceptance is often misunderstood so let’s clear the air.

Misconception #1: Acceptance means giving up or being passive.

Truth: Acceptance is not about resignation; it's about acknowledging reality as it is without struggling against it. It's recognizing what you can't change and choosing how to respond or adapt to the situation.

Misconception #2: Acceptance means approval.

Truth: Acceptance doesn’t necessarily mean approval or agreement with a situation. It's about acknowledging that something exists or has happened, even if you don’t agree with it, and deciding how to move forward constructively.

Misconception #3: Acceptance is a sign of weakness.

Truth: Acceptance requires courage and strength. It involves facing difficult realities, embracing vulnerability, and finding resilience in challenging circumstances rather than denying or avoiding them.

Misconception #4: Acceptance means things will never change.

Truth: Acceptance doesn’t mean giving up on change. It's about acknowledging the present reality while exploring ways to create positive change or adapting to new circumstances that arise.

Misconception #5: Acceptance is a one-time event.

Truth: Acceptance can be an ongoing process. It's not always easy and might require revisiting and reaffirming your acceptance of a situation or aspect of yourself as you grow and evolve.

In essence, acceptance is about

  • Embracing the present moment

  • Acknowledging reality without judgment

  • Finding peace within oneself amidst life’s uncertainties and challenges

It’s a nuanced concept that involves understanding, resilience, and the willingness to adapt and grow.

What’s the one truth that you needed to hear?

Master certified in Mindset Coaching, Integrative Wellness, and facilitating groups through Spiritual Formation, Anna focuses on coaching others in breakthrough how we perceive and interact with ourselves, God, and others. Through insightful questions, techniques to get to the root of where individuals get stuck or discouraged, empowering them to find the right solutions, and equipping them with practical tools, individuals find themselves towards congruent and lasting results

Anna Viettry

Master certified in Mindset Coaching, Integrative Wellness, and facilitating groups through Spiritual Formation, Anna focuses on coaching others in breakthrough how we perceive and interact with ourselves, God, and others. Through insightful questions, techniques to get to the root of where individuals get stuck or discouraged, empowering them to find the right solutions, and equipping them with practical tools, individuals find themselves towards congruent and lasting results

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